Como me preparei para a chegada de um bebé

Não fiz cursos de pré-parto nem pós parto. Não fiz nada. Não pesquisei nada. Queria garantir o meu instinto e sabia que se fizesse cursos, ele me ia falhar.

Não precisamos de nada asseguro-vos. Há milhares de anos que o fazemos. Há milhares de anos que as mulheres têm filhos sem acesso à internet, televisão, livros ou cursos. E nós estamos cá!

Nenhum curso é tão bom como o instinto de uma mãe ou a sabedoria passada pelos seus familiares ou amigos mais próximos.

Se fosse hoje não mudava nada. Tive dúvidas? Muitas! Não sabia se estava a fazer tudo certo, como devia. Mas o tempo faz-nos ter cada vez mais confiança e tranquilidade.

Pensava que não ia conseguir. Ainda grávida de 3 meses, implorava à minha mãe que quando chegada a altura, me ajudasse. Chorava de pânico de não conseguir sozinha fazer tudo aquilo a que um bebe nos propõe.
Nada disso.
O medo começou a passar assim que a vi, sentia-me invencível, e apesar dos primeiros dias em casa terem sido mais confusos, rapidamente percebi que era capaz de tudo. Agora sei que sou a melhor pessoa do mundo para cuidar dela. Ninguém é tão bom quanto eu.
Ninguém sabe tão bem do que ela precisa.

Quem me segue há mais tempo, sabe que a Bee é uma bebe complicada, daquelas que não adormecem sozinhas, que não gostam de dormir e que choram inconsolavelmente sem razão aparente. As primeiras semanas não foram difíceis, foram horrivelmente difíceis e por isso cedemos ao fazer um mini curso para supostamente ajudar os bebes a dormirem melhor…
O meu conselho? Não façam! Eu não voltaria a fazer.

Reforço uma vez mais que sabemos tudo, eu já sabia tudo, só estava irritada, chateada, cansada! Mas isso passa garanto-vos, o vosso bebe pode não melhorar aos três meses, nem aos quatro, nem aos seis, mas a sensação de impotência passa e não são precisos cursos para isso!

A Bee só tem três meses, melhorou ligeiramente, o suficiente para me sentir com alguma energia, mas continua difícil… Eu é que estou mais tranquila, não é ela!

O que fizeram vocês para se preparem para a chegada do primeiro filho?
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