O pos-parto logo após o parto

O pós-parto é bem mais difícil do que dizem. Pelo menos foi para mim.

A barriga não desaparece milagrosamente. Lembro-me de 3 meses depois me darem prioridade de passagem (e eu não estava com a Bee).

Amamentar é uma aventura cheia de desafios. As feridas. O cansaço. As vozes. Os medos.

As dores que para muitas mulheres demoram a passar.

O sono, que se acumula dia após dia.

As hormonas. O raio das hormonas. Os homens não acreditam nelas, mas a verdade é que nos dão a volta à cabeça. O corpo é o nosso, o espírito não. Vivemos num universo paralelo, como se não estivéssemos a pisar o chão pelo qual caminhamos.

Tudo isto junto com um bebé a chorar dia e noite. Um bebé que parece eternamente insatisfeito.

Nesta fotografia estou a dar biberão à Benedita, aconselhada erradamente por uma enfermeira. Por causa disso, o meu leite demorou 8 dias a aparecer.

Uma enfermeira que me fez crer que não tinha leite para sustentar a minha filha. Felizmente, as pessoas certas apareceram na minha vida e 9 meses depois a Bee ainda mama.

Nesta foto parecia que ainda havia um bebé para sair. Lembro-me da sensibilidade do meu querido amigo Miguel ao entrar no quarto do hospital “então e o outro? Quando nasce?”. A Catarina deu-lhe um safanão. Eu ri-me. O meu corpo era o que menos me interessava naquele momento.

Os medicamentos. As seringas.

O faz assim. Faz assado. Não faças.

Lembro-me de deitar a minha filha no meu peito porque queria senti-la e entrar uma enfermeira no quarto que disse “ah agora isso não faz mal porque ela acabou de nascer mas não pode continuar a fazer isso tá bem mãe? É que habitua-a mal”

“Não, não está bem! A filha é minha e eu durmo com ela quantas vezes eu quiser!”
Gostava de ter respondido assim. Mas é a minha primeira filha. Sabia lá do que estava falar.

Queria ir para casa. Queria descansar.

Quis voltar para o hospital na primeira noite em que cheguei a casa!

E com vocês? Como foram aqueles dias após o parto?
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